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Monika ([personal profile] peninhand) wrote in [community profile] jigokucho2022-07-26 01:07 pm

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Hello. I have a question for all the Lost Souls:

What is love in your reality?

To be more specific, I am talking about the kind of love you find between two lovers. I realize how strange this question may sound. But this is very important to me and I would appreciate it if as many people as possible could reply to this with serious answers.


PS: please don't reply with a link to Haddaway's song.
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[personal profile] fuckdogramagra 2022-07-26 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Soren Kierkegaard wrote, "Love is the expression of the one who loves, not of the one who is loved. Those who think they can love only the people they prefer do not love at all. Love discovers truths about individuals that others cannot see."

In short, love is patience and acceptance brought to their most complete conclusion; being able to know a person as easily as you know yourself, and not rejecting their worst parts. I'm not sure if quoting my betters is helpful, but it's what has stuck with me for many years.
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[personal profile] fuckdogramagra 2022-07-27 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, good, Kierkegaard is still read in the (presumed) future! I wasn't sure...in a lot of ways, I'm from quite a ways in the past compared to most lost souls. The existentialists are still quite popular in 1922, even in Japan.

With responses like you've received, at least the shape of love's impact can still be seen, even if it might seem quite ugly to take all in to account. (´▽`;) It might seem dark, depressing, even dangerous and strange...but love is motivation, to better ourselves and the world around us! Writers don't strike so passionately about anything else save death, after all!

Then again, I'm a writer myself, so I suppose I'm predisposed to being more romanticized on the notion of love? But it's not as if I write romance myself, so maybe that's not true in my case. I am in love, however...that may be the cause of my perspective more than anything else.
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[personal profile] fuckdogramagra 2022-08-01 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
[ Only two things keep him from bringing up he has two boyfriends...natural shyness, and also his own unending, constant embarrassment over anything to do with his own lovelife. ]

Ah, thank you. (´▽`*) We're as happy as can be, given we're here and all...actually, being here is quite a bit nicer than when we're from, so I guess I should count my blessings. I'd not be able to use these cellphones at all to send cute texts to my s/o otherwise!

But even if reading of classics has dwindled some in this 'modern' age, it's still kept alive by love! I received a commission of sorts to write a love story very recently, so even if it's not the typical genre I pen, I'm dedicated to making good on it! Maybe I could turn to someone else who's curious about love's expressions for review of it?


[ this sounds legit...but given he was asked to write faction leader drama romance,,,, sorry to future monika ]
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[personal profile] eyediot 2022-08-03 12:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I hadn't thought about Kierkegaard, but that is another way to express the feeling.

I think that is an apt quote.


[Kierkegaard in this place. Huh.]